31 yr old, 5'11", Childfree Male from Chapel Hill, United States
Not open to long distance!
Looking For: Female
Smoking: No
Drinking: Yes
Pets: I can tolerate some pets
Education: Bachelor's Degree
Tubes Tied / Vasectomy: I'm considering it down the road
Below is philleski's handwritten answer to the, "Tell us a little bit about you", survey question.
Hey there! I'm a software engineer working for a company in NY. I'm fully remote and can work from anywhere in the world which I'm super excited about. I'm in Galway, Ireland for the next few months during the quarantine. My dream is to save a good amount of money and retire by 40. After that I want to travel to exotic places, challenge myself with new hobbies, and have some wild experiences. If you're a fun adventurous girl who's dreaming about the same thing, I want to meet you! I love learning languages. I'm practicing Spanish, Polish, and French and I'm trying to be fluent in all three by the end of the year. Skiing is my favorite sport when I can do it, I've skied all my life and it puts me in a state of zen. I like swimming and resistance training as well. I'm very much into chess and play in tournaments a few times a year. The game keeps getting more beautiful the deeper you get into it and it's the best way I know to keep my mind sharp. Besides that I love spontaneity and meeting new people. I'll always enjoy writing code and I'm a lifelong learner. I just finished a video series on tensor calculus, I binge watch the nerdiest shit to learn new things. If you're an awesome lady, anywhere in the world, and my post intrigued you -- send me a message!
Perhaps the most important question to CFdating's profile survey, below is philleski's answer to why they choose to be childfree.
I feel like I would have to give up all my hobbies except maybe 1-2, be tired and annoyed most of the time, and spend a metric fuckton of money on them. I feel like once you become a parent that's your identity, you're expected to devote the rest of your life to the well-being of your kids. For some people it's beautiful and meaningful and the best decision of their lives, and I'm truly happy for them. But it's not for me.
Finally, would philleski have or want kids down the road? Below is how they answered this critical question.
No! As it turns out I had my vasectomy scheduled for last week but the coronavirus thought it would be funny to disrupt my plans. I definitely don't want them, I'm excited to live my life on my own terms instead!
